I don't really know what to do, i have found out that I am 9 weeks pregnant. i live with my fiancee and roommates, and we are not getting along with our roommates at all. Our lease is up in august but i don't think we can last that long living here with them. I would like to move out as soon as we get our tax refunds but i'm afraid they will sue us if we leave early. we are not the lease holders just residents in the apartment. and really the only place that we can afford is a studio apartment and i'm afraid that will be to small when the baby arrives. I work part time at toys r us and i make good money during xmas season but then once it is over i make barely enough money to pay the rent. my fiancee is unemployed and getting unempolyment, so at least he can pay the rent but it seems no one is hiring now. He has put out a million apps and we haven't gotten one phone call.
my parents cannot help me with this and i don't know what to do, i feel like this stress of being pregnant, living with people that we hate/hate us, and making little money is killing me and my unborn child.
hi sabrina again suby53
iam haging in there,ropes getting tighter everyday,i need donations my legs gone now i guess i have to hop evreywhere because my car needs alot of work n i dont know how a can afford or trade with anyone,
let me know, im just used to driving n how can i afford a cab every time? my car needs work or trade it for somethinG small n INExpenssive, my check engin Lights on, off n on, but now i need a inspection cant get that either,,,
ok god iam waiting i no someting goods gonna happen again, with a little for new freind wt good hearts bye 4 now help need bad iwill be out by march or soon if the lord gives us some time, thanks again subby 53 iam a artist n sister can make these,
my lion couple i made last yr, they are little stuffed animals but we do it all ,my sister n i,let me know. mabe i can make these 4 people who help me n son to stay out of the Streets we can give you 1 for every 5 dls we get to help us, IF I GET A DECENT CAR we can sell these and other then i could be supporting myslf n my son too, thanks again suby53,if we do good we are gonna give a potion to the aspca 4 those poor souls too, i want a place to live but no 1 want any animal not pets, my cats been with me 8 yrs n been thou my hell my best freind, ok luv ys hang in there, hope to hear from some 1 of u good hearted n finacialy blessed to help bye for now
in response to truckerdoug58...Exactly!!! I'm back in Atlanta now, and I am looking for every little bit of work so I can pay these people off their money. I use to drive trucks in the army and now I would love to go to school for my CDL lic..
Well I hope you get everything situated for yourself. I am really deep in the hole which I must crawl out of; but I'm slowly making my way out.
There IT is......................
There it is....is for the many who found this world full of people with greed who'll offer you the moon and then always keep it just out of reach.I'll share what I've learned freely as it was shared with me.It's simple and clear as it should be.No need to go to hours of meeting and give away your hard earned cash to scam artist in sheep skins.They'll not only take your money but, your time and god forbid your faith! If it's God's will I will accept a donation to expand my efforts to reach others by various methods.If not then please accept the following in the spirit it was given.
I.Believe----
With all your heart,soul and substance you must"Believe in whatever you may want to be manifested in reality. By faith we create our own reality.By faith we create our world and are what we believe.Tell anyone something about themselves long enough and the will not only believe it but,will act as if they are.
II.Speak It---
For good or bad, we speak our reality into being.If it's negative...then we mistakenly start the process of manifesting the bad omen by just speaking it and creating the atmosphere for it to exist.The World and all that is and ever shall be is and was spoken into being.GOD spoke the creation into being....and GOD said let there be....and it was good.So everything "EVERYTHING" starts with belief in the spirit realm and becomes a spoken word,then reality.
III.Act on It---
Now a mean,take the path of least resistance.Just a feather touch.We limit our power just using pure worldly force often over doing the nature process of miracles.Making a simple job harder or killing it altogether.The Women with the issue of blood first believe then spoken of her faith then acted on it by touching Jesus.This World has taught us that only by physical means we can realize our dreams.Not only would this debunk miracles but,kill the faith of those who do.Thankfully God is all powerful and there are if not all things mere man can not explain.
IV.Receive it----
You sometimes can't see the forest for the trees.Don't be blinded by the materiel world and how thing may appear.The world and the devil we try to bluff you out your blessing.When things look there worst and seem to just go wrong then,look a little deeper and don't miss that blessing thats already there that you don't see or just around the corner!The rule of thumb is the stronger the resistance seems the closer the blessing!!!
V.Testify to others---
Freely you we're given so freely share your blessing with others.
This is the most Important step.We can't be shady and hide our light under a bush...we must hold it up for others to see.Not only does this builds the faith of others but, makes a positive atmosphere of blessing and goodwill in the dog eat dog world that would stamp out spiritual miracles!
Now go out and bless others and god will bless you.
in response to bookworm2011...Wow! Char, that is so awesome! I'm thrilled for you!!!! Now, go kick some butt and lose the rest during your second round!
in response to Bee's Knees...Just wanted to thank you for your support through my diet, I am done with round one and lost about 17-18 pounds. I am in a size 9 down from a 12 and very happy..now I am working out and watching what I eat carefully. I may do another round later but I am very pleased with the results. I emailed you a one to one photo before and after
thanks again
char
I'm a 46 year old woman, recently divorced. My ex has my children and taken them overseas leaving me on my own with absolutely nothing. 18 years of marriage and hard work, now I'm trying to better myself and get on my feet. Please if there is anyone out there who has the ability to help me to pay for an education, I appreciate it. Thank you, sincerely, onmyownagain
in response to ras1811...Pat It seem you and I are kinda in the same boat. I was a long haul truck driver. I have two tickets not paid that has my lic. suspended. The speeding ticket in Ohio 145.00 I know I owe. The overweight ticket in manchester Tn. The company was susposed to pay. They didn't now I owe 170.00 for it. With reinstatement fee, dup. copy of lic. and all 650. will put my CDLs back in my hands.I just had to have neck surgery Dec.20. I have not been able to work since July 2010. What is born and bread Americans supposed to do when they have no way to do any thing? I dont quailfy for Tenn. care, to help with medical help.I could go back to work in no time with my lic.
Greetings everyone. I want to share a problem I have. For five years I have been trying to resolve a traffic violation that was given to me due to lack of funds. I use to be a U.S. soldier in the active duty Army. When I no longer was in the Army, I decide to enroll in college. Well one particular day over five years ago, I was trying to film a school project from my vehicle. Honestly I did not have any money compared to the amount of money that was being paid to me from the military. Times was hard and I had no insurance on my vehicle, to include expired license plates, and expired registration when I was attempting to film a project. The police assumed that I could be part of some terrorist organization because I was trying to film planes at a small regional airport. The vehicle was towed by the police for lack of all the traffic violations. Every since those fines, I have not been able to obtain a good job without drivers license since my license was revoked due to the traffic violations. The fine is $1,405.00 all together since it was three different violations. I have not been able to save nor raise that kind of money, because over the last five years I spent 3 and a half of those years a full time college student. I really need to find a way or some help to remove this from my record so I can possess license and obtain a decent or excellent career or job. I have had a few small jobs, but they only assisted me in helping pay rent, food, public transportation, and utilities. I really would like to do better for myself, and help others in the process. If only I could resolve this problem, then I will be able to return the favor to someone who needs the help one day. Does any person out there know a logical solution, or can anyone lend a helping hand? Thanks for reading this.
in response to bookworm2011...My family doesn't like it when there are no snacks either, but I have weaned them off of them almost entirely now, because, the truth is, it won't hurt them to not eat sweets. In fact, sugar is the major cause of most sickness, since it is poison, and kicks the heck out of our immune systems! I'm so glad the green tea and stevia help you! It IS hard to remember to drink all that water, since you are a busy lady! Hang in there and it WILL come off!
in response to Bee's Knees...No Worries! That happens to me every once in a while too..I got a little bummed because the past two days I saw an increase of 6 ounces but then realized that I had stopped drinking all the water..I made myself drink the required glasses today and we will see what the scale says tmw..Ive found drinking some green tea with the sweetner completely takes care of any cravings when I cook for my family. I tried to eliminate boxed and packaged sweets so I must endure the baking treats for them since Im the one who got myself into this by telling them they need to eat healthier, homemade snacks! Thank you again for the support! I hope that things are well with you and your family..
char
in response to bookworm2011...Hi, Char. Sorry for the delay in answering. Ever notice how Aip sometimes tells you there are messages, then, after you open and read one, it tells you there are no more? I just ran across this message from you that I never even read before, so I'm assuming that is what happened.
I know. It is sooooo hard to cook or bake for others when you are not allowed to have any! But, when you are in the zone, you are in the zone!
Keep going! You CAN get down to the pre-baby weight again! I did.
I can't wait to see the after picture!
Wow Derrick:)I read ur story and cant believe the ordeals u have gone thru,I truly ave alot of compassion for you,and many times I wonder why "me","us".I tell u I hit a real bad spot,and I ended up hoding a sign,asking for anukind of assistance,I stood crying,as people with expexivw clothes cars would drive by,but the people whom were on the poor side were right there to help me,even offering to take me get groceries with thier lasr bit of food stamps,which i couldnt,as I felt too bad.I made 23$ that day,with probably 100plus cars,going by.just sad.I feel so many people take advantage of people,and most people are heartless towards people in need:)I will pray for u my friend:)I wish I coiuld do more:)Take care,Jill
in response to Bee's Knees...Dear Bee's Knee's:
Thank you for your answr and taking the time to set me along the right reason why I am here. We all can use the help at times and me I am looking for an angel, for a long time now have been putting it in prayer to have a family car for my family of one child. this is one reason why I am looking into the grants and see where the Creator will guide me too. Once again thank you for your time... Close with love and peace... StrongBear
in response to georgette7...Thanks, Georgette. I do think it helps when people can see it is a real need, and that it goes directly to pay that need, instead of just a random person's account. Scammers have been here and tricked people into giving them lots of money in the past. We've lost many good contributors because of that. When new contributors join, and ask me how to tell which people have real needs, a good rule of thumb is seeing that some needs are real and having proof (like when the bill is paid directly.) so you have a good point.
in response to Bee's Knees...i just wanted to make sure no one was thinking that they would be sending the funds to me.i know all of you on the site whom are helpping are doing things as you can.i was reading things on the site befor posting.you are doing a great job with all repiles
in response to georgette7...What I am saying is that money is not often exchanged here in any way (direct gifts, grants, paying of bills, etc...) I understand you are asking for tax help. Everyone seems to be struggling right now, especially this time of year. Many are disabled, homeless, have no food, etc....
We have no idea which contributors happen to be reading the posts and are financially able and willint to help. Sometimes this does happen, but most of the time, we try to swap helpful info, resources for help through different organizations, etc...(usually the people who need help the very most are helped in those cases)
We have no access to any cash other than whatever we each earn via our own jobs.
Many times people have the misconception that we work for a large corporation and are able to distribute funds from a large account.
I hope this information helps.
I wish I could be of more help.
I know how it feels to be hassled for payments due.
God bless you.
in response to StrongBear...Hello, StronBear,
I was losing my house when I found this site. I was not sure what it was at first. I have never been given a grant here. I found out the people here help one another as they can. Some have been given cash assistance by other members, but mostly I see people giving one another support and information. Many contributors have taken the time to research different topics and are able to point others in the right direction for help.
Hello Sis just wanted to introduce my self first; I am StrongBear. You have been here from the time of 2010 and was wondering why you came to this site was it like me looking for grants? Ofcourse, with your permission I am asking of you. My reason is to find out if this site does help us, for I am looking for grants too... Please for give me if I sounded bold just wanted to know what is up with our site here? :) thanks for even reading this, close with love and peace... StrongBear
in response to georgette...We can help you with ideas about how to find resources for aid, but we cannot guarantee you will be gifted cash. Each of us gives as we are able.
needing help with taxs,home inc.,food,household items.these are the first main things i need to take care of.i put up a request on the home page.what help we get that would be great.anyone can make the main payment to whom it goes to
in response to Bee's Knees...if you have a need you can just let someone either pay it to the sorce or just get you the item you need.that is what i am looking for someone to do.i am not asking for cash in my hand just help.and that's whatever help i can get.i will still try to do things on my own.do not mean to sound mean but that's how i fell
i have been to places to get help.the only thing they would tell me is that we can not help you at this time.
in response to hoffa...HCG is fairly cheap and fast, although, to make it work, you do need to do it for a minimum of 23 doses, I think (3 doses a day). Another one that totally works is low carb. I have to run right now, but will be back soon...
This is a long shot but im going to give it a try. I wrecked my car in May and totaled it and have been out of work ever since. My son helps me out so much on geting bills and rent paid etc. I need a car really bad. I dont care what it looks like as long as it runs good. If anyoone who sees this and has an extra dollar or even two dollars...even a few cents. just whatever you can spare I have a paypal set up for car donations (Just made it) or rather added a card to it sp i can be used. I promise to pay all forward once I get a job very happily will do so. My paypal name is heownsme105@hotmail.com
Iam 36 years old and have three kids. i am a single mom and i have stage one COPD. Just found out this past November. Recently lost my job because I wrecked my car and didnt have a way back and forth. So here iam. My dad was murdered whn I was young. Im loving,caring,honest,sensitive, anything else just ask.
Gud morning...so I been reading alot of what you wrote to bookworm and I was wondering what is it that u recommand her to take for her to lose 8ponds in 8days! Thats amazing...i want try watever it is if its not to expenive.I been taking diet pills forever and the only that hd seem to work was hydrocut but u have to wrk out a ton, abd lipozene makes you have oily gas, and thats not good..lol so I could use some of your advice asap..i want to be that sexy body for the summer
in response to Bee's Knees...I appreciate your support, I really do..this means so much to me because I really want to get healthier and back to where I was pre-baby. I am proud to say I have been very strict with my eating. Its SO HARD because I cook alot and like to experiment for my family. I fried them catfish and fries and cornbread one night this week and about died from the smell!! ALso was running late and no time to cook and had to stop at McDonalds for my kids a few times and the smell of the fries almost made me give in but I reminded my self these are the steps I need to take to achieve this goal. I did happen to find my size 5-6 pants and clothing in my garage and some of my pants are still new so my goal is to get down to those sizes from where I am now (a 10) and that way I wont have to do a ton of shopping for new clothes.
Just weighed in , I am on day 8 and have lost a total of 8 pounds! Im very excited and thank yoiu again for all of your help!
Char
I am in the same shape as U!! But I believe if I help others it will come back my way one day!! Please let me know what I can do for U!! Find me as a Friend on FB! Marsha Cooper from Kite, Ga.
in response to bookworm2011...Wahooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! That is so great! I'm so glad to hear it! I'm proud of you! Now, just beware that your rate of loss may slow a little after the first week, but do not be discouraged and do not give up! Most importantly, do NOT listen to people trying to discourage you! Remember, if you cheat, it not only will slow down your loss, but if the cheat is great enough, it will cause you to gain. Some cheats cause a several lb gain and take 3 days to get back to where you were.
Also, if you hit a plateau, where you have stayed the same weight for several days, ditch the shrimp, oranges, and tomatoes, since they have been known to hold people up.
You can totally do this!!!!!!!!!!!!
Keep reporting back--please!
I love hearing about your success!
Good am! Just wanted to say I love this diet!!! I am not hungry at all and I have been on the diet one week. I have lost 6 pounds so far..thank you so much for the encouragement!
By bookworm2011 - on Jan 13, 2012... modified on Jan 13, 2012
Posted in Linda D.
in response to Linda D....Hi if you sign up for freebies, you can get many free things emailed to you daily. Also search for freebies on facebook and look for giveaways of items nearly daily. Finally, you can email companies directly..whatever product your needing if you contact them via email and tell them how much you love their product, they will usually send you some coupons..last year alone I received 30 in diaper coupons, 10 in free dog food coupons, etc...its time consuming but well worth it..I have free things come in the mail everyday..you can also do swagbucks a legit site that you can earn giftcards and money for doing surveys etc...hope this helps
I really need a Miracle. I have no transportation an need a job fast because I have to pay child support an I have no family nor friends in NC. I had to apply for a Gov. cell phone this week because out of money for mine so having to turn off when contract is up in Feb. I'm having to look for a place to live also. My family won't help me. I have no where to live an tired of living with someone from online just to have a home. Also looking for a Stable man for friendship and companionship- Serious Relationship I should say. I can relocate. I'm a Christian and have a prayer ministry. I haven't seen my kid's in 3 years since I moved to NC an my son just joined the Army an Basic Training is May 8,2012 an then after Graduation he is shipping out. He want's to go to Japan. Also lookin for a laptop that can be donated to me - Like I said I have a prayer ministry an would love to focas on it with a laptop. I'm on my roommates computer that is very slow. May God Bless me with what I need as he know's everything I am in need of......Also if anyone know's how I can go about getting donations for things as soap, toliet paper, girly things because I'm out of money an don't know what to do since I have no way to work since I live in the country. Thank you and God Bless
in response to JayR...Hi, JayR. If you tell your story briefly, on the main page, and list your specific needs, as well as becoming involved in our community by helping others in what ever way possible, (referring them to helpful info, etc...) someone may be able to help you.
Remember that many are here running scams, just to see what they can get for free and not willing to give anything back or work for anything for themselves.
The contributors must weed through all posts from all sorts, and make the best determination they can.
Many of us can only brainstorm with you to help you try to find a solution.
Only a few have the means to help with money.
We each do what we can.
There is no guarantee.
I wish you all the best.
Yaweh bless you!
Hi there!
my name is JayR and I'm new to this website and need someone that might can help me with how to get the best possible results on getting some immediate help! I'm just kinda reaching out right now
in response to bookworm2011...Go to YouTube. There are tons and tons of success stories about HCG. People who are negative about it are usually those who have not tried it and probably did not read the book. If you understand the science behind it, and especially if you try it, there is no way you can give it a thumbs down if you are really being honest. Pounds and Inches by ATW Simeons is the book. You can find a free download of it online from many sources.
I agree completely with you about not keeping tempting things in your house! That is the only way I can pull it off too! Also, sugar is poison for everyone. It is the most addictive drug. Nobody needs it, since it poops your immune system. It won't hurt the rest of the family to do without it!
in response to Bee's Knees...I am so happy to hear a success sotry from the diet..Ive been leary of it because you hear alot of negativity..but I think some people may not use it correctly as with all diets..thats terrible about the kidney stones I have heard they are more painful than being in labor! I too lost alot of weight with protein only but was really paranoid about the effects on my kidneys...I was doing great this year until the holidays rolled around..I really love to cook and bake so we made tons of cookies, breads and pies! Needless to say, I need to get back on the wagon myself..my philosophy is if its not in the house, I cant eat it..and I wont be tempted.. so back to our healthy diet :)
we didnt want to deprive the kids of the holiday treats but we are all pretty burnt out and going back to normal! Thanks for the encouragement, I am sure you are going to continue doing well with your new plan of attack!
Happy New Year!
char
